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11/17/09 07:50 am - [info]thieving_cunce posting in [info]vaginapagina - Possible vaginal tear?

Wow, after years of being a member here, it is time for my frist VP question!
I have come to you wonderful people because of the mixed information I have found online.

On Saturday my lover and I had a lot of sex. On Sunday, I felt a bit raw, and put it down to possibly not being wet enough. I didn't notcie any on Sunday, but yesterday when I wiped after I peed, I noticed some tiny blood spots. The only conclusion I can draw is that I got a small tear.
I don't feel sick, no temperature, drinking lots of water (Summer here, so I'm drinking heaps anyway), cotton undies, not tight clothes.
It is now Tuesday morning. I haven't checked for any more blood, but I am still a bit tender.
Am I justified in not going to the doctor? I was thinking of approaching it like a new piercing (of which I have a few in the 'pants area') - lots of rest, hydration, and no interference - but thought I would check with your guys' knowledge first, in case there is something I must know.

11/16/09 10:11 am - [info]internetporn posting in [info]vaginapagina - Implantation Bleeding question!!!

Hello VPers! I have a quick question about implantation bleeding...AND IT IS:

Just how much comes out?? Is in, is it a significant amount or just a couple drops/smears. I know that sometimes it looks pinkish and other times like brownish discharge (at least that is what internet sources say) but they never mention just how much there is!

So my story (ugh): I've only had sex TWICE (that I can remember - this plays a factor!) since my last period, the first was the day after my period stopped (so no chance of pregnancy there since it was sorta in the "safe zone" before ovulation (as I understand it) and the second was last night, a good TEN days after my period (period started October 31st and ended Thursday November 5th). Both these times were with condoms. BUT on Tuesday, November 10th, me and the boyfriend were fooling around, and I'm not quite sure if there was penetration and then the pullout method - I don't remember!!! We didn't have condoms that night and ughhh, after sex yesterday, there were sort of darkish smears on the lining of my underwear, and since I have NEVER EVER EVER had spotting before in-between periods, I am really starting to freak out. What are the chances of my being pregnant here... let us just say say that there was penetration and then pull out on that fateful Tuesday night.

Oh, Edit: Earlier yesterday (before the sex) there seemed to be a bit of an ingrown hair/pimple sort of thing on the inside of my thigh... which I proceeded to pop. The weird smears of what looks like blood is on the right side of my underwear, the same side that this little pimple was popped. The fact that the smears are on the right side of my underwear make me think that MAYBE it was just this little thing that bled... but I'm not sure. This is what is sort of keeping me sane right now though. Anyway, just another factor in my story!

What do you think??? What is the consistancy of implantation spotting? Any help is great appreciated!!!

11/16/09 02:05 pm - [info]thinktink16 posting in [info]vaginapagina - Low dose to high dose BC?

Hey ya'll. Due to insurance joy and the fact that there is no generic for Loestrin 24, I had to go to the generic of the regular Loestrin. So now I'm on Junel 1/20 and I was wondering if there are usually any bad side effects of going from a low dosage BC on which I had a 4 day placebo period to a regular dosage BC with a 7 day placebo period. I've been on a low dosage (Yaz then Loestrin 24) for about 3 years. Thanks!

11/16/09 10:48 am - [info]leeshers posting in [info]vaginapagina

Ladies, I have a problem.
Due to an insurance mess up I couldnt pick up my Yaz yesteday and start it the way I needed to. I can get it today, but might not be able to take it until after 12 (midnight).

IF I take 2 of the them tonight after midnight, is that missing one day and catching up or am I now at missing 2 days and in trouble? I have been on this med for several years, never had a scare.
 

11/16/09 06:15 pm - [info]plastik_xx posting in [info]vaginapagina - my vagina is a nightmare. please help

ok, ive posted a few times before, as i have been suffering with thrush. the first time, i took some canesten(the tablet you put inside the vagina), and it went away. then after sleeping with my bf i got it again (i now know that he has thrush, he is being treated) but i slept with him over 2weeks ago, i treated the thrush with natural yoghurt, it seemed to go away. then after masturbation, the thrush(??) came back really bad, yogert did not make it go away.
I have a horrid red raw rash around the outside of my vulva, where the skin is actually peeling off. the inside of my inner labia is also very red with tiny white spots (possibly boils, about as big as a pinhead)
all of this randomly flares up randomly throughout the day getting unbareabley itchy.
i took a oral canesten fluconazole tablet on friday, now 3 days later i still have bad symptoms.

im so upset about all of this and any advice at all to what is wrong with me would be very much appreciated. i have just tried to make an appointment with my local GP but they are booked up till next week :'( (&i cant go anywhere else as i dont drive.)
also because i usually shave my vagina, lots of itchy stubble is coming through, so would shaving the stubble help with the itching?

11/16/09 09:14 am - [info]hollywood848 posting in [info]vaginapagina

Sorry if this has already been posted but I'm at work and have limited Internet access and kinda need the info asap. Please forgive me :)

I'm on the pill (trivora) and I've been sick for the past week or two with a stomachy flu (throwing up, frequent bathroom visits), so I pretty much stopped taking the pill since I figured there was no point if it was just going to leave my body before it could get absorbed or whatever. Anyways, my question is since I was only 3 days into my new pack, can I just start off where I left off at or are those 3 days really that important? And also just to double check, I don't want any scares lol, it won't be effective again for a week, right?


Thank you guys so much and sorry again if this is all redundant to you!!!!

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11/16/09 09:34 am - [info]theferrett - Excerpt From An Email

I've given up the trappings of being metal, that ritualistic body-shaping and hair-growing and fetishistic costuming so that everyone around me would KNOW I was X-TREME. I've quietly settled down since then into jeans and T-shirts, which are what I'm comfortable in. 

I am what I am.  I know this.  I don't care if you think I'm mundane, and I no longer really care to announce my memberships with a tribe to all passerby.  You can find out who I am by talking to me.

This feels like a cleaner, saner way to live.  At least for the moment.

11/16/09 08:47 am - [info]theferrett - Musings On RPG Writing

In the beginning, there was an A, and it went straight to Z. Such was the way of computerized roleplaying games.

The storylines of RPGs have expanded somewhat since then, but every RPG has an interesting conundrum at its heart: you want to give your players the illusion of freedom, but realistically you need to keep your players pressed firmly against the rails of the plot. Sure, it'd be great if we had an RPG where you had three or four completely separate storylines - a series of noble quests for the good guy who wants to save the kingdom, a series of brutal conspiracies for the evil guy who wants to rule it, and a third series for the whacky guy who doesn't give a crap about the kingdom but wants to seduce nubile, beautiful conquests.

Alas, it's hard to justify creating large, expensive setpieces that won't be seen by two-thirds of your player base, so RPG writers do what Hollywood folks have been doing since movies began: they recycle sets. Whether you're good, bad, or just plain crazy, they have to engineer a plot where you're going to start at the carefully-balanced Shallows of Lakeshore and end up facing down the Big Bad in the very-expensive-to-create Grindguts Cave.

This, in turn, creates a really fascinating writing constriction: you have to create a separate emotional arc for each kind of player you allow. If the PC wants to be a good guy, that's great; everyone loves him, and he'll nobly set out to end the evil in the land. But if the PC wants to be a jerk (which 4.9% of you default to), then not only do you have to give him a motivation for setting out after the MacGuffin, but you have to create a set of separate goals for all your NPCs that explain why they put up with this bloodthirsty wahoo.

In other words, when writing a big RPG like this, you're essentially writing a separate storyline for each kind of playstyle you want to have. That's a lot of words. And if you do that poorly, then you run the risk of having every NPC being a punching bag. If the players feel like the NPCs are going to give you the Staff Of Plot Coupon no matter how they act, then they become less involved.

The way Bioware's gotten around that (at least partially) is to have players in your party have their own motivations. If you act too evil, the good NPCs will leave you, or even attack. Be too much of a nice guy, and that most excellent tank you've spent all that time levelling up will turn on you. Which is also a nice way to encourage a second runthrough.

The other thing Bioware has defaulted to (since it's mostly bulletproof) is to give you a Four-Plot Coupon structure. See, if it's a straight line from the start to the finish, then you run the risk of getting bored/stuck somewhere between A and Z. The standard Bioware structure is to get you past an introductory challenge, then branch off to an "open-ended" segment where you must complete four tasks before you can get to the end game - in the case of Dragon Age, you must do four things to bring the kingdom together against the Darkspawn. Those four tasks are each easily accessible, in a location with their own side quests, so you have the illusion of free will as you pick your choice of plots.

That choice, however, leads to another flaw: you're wandering around in the middle of the game with no ticking clock. Yes, everyone tells you that the Foobari invasion will start any time soon, but realistically you're just meandering and levelling up.

What they've done in Dragon Age to remedy this, however, is really brilliant: they've started tying the tasks together again. Which is to say that when I finished one quest, the only way it could be completed was to get the help of the Circle of Wizards - and when I got to the Circle of Wizards, guess what? They needed my help before they could help me out with my prior quest.

Truth is, I would have gotten to the Circle of Wizards anyway since they were on my Plot Coupon Shopping List. But requiring their help as part of my prior quest made it feel like more of a plot. Now they were a large complication, not a check-off.

BioWare's also started having triggering events in between each of the Plot Coupons to keep the story rolling. For example, when you complete your first Plot Coupons, assassins strike at you on your way to Plot Coupon #2. Complete #2, another mini-quest triggers. This gives the illusion of movement.

It's fascinating, because every RPG has the same core elements: a player, who may or may not be a jerk, must go to various locations, kill monsters, and level up enough to kill the bad guy. BioWare is obviously feeling the restraints on that, and particularly for Dragon Age (I'm just getting to Plot Coupon #3) they're really trying to battle against those shackles. They did that already (most notably in The Twist in Knights of the Old Republic, which cleverly answers an eternal RPG canard), but it's really evident that they're going for broke here.

Dragon Age has a lot of flaws thus far: a hackneyed backstory, NPCs who fucking love jumping in front of you the second you try to open a chest (HAY GUY YOU WANTED TO TALK TO ME, RITE?), some sketchy level design (why, yes, I would like to walk into an ambush of six mages who I can't hurt until they've fired the first six shots!), every NPC is a pinata full of words that you can't really skip past, and of course there's the usual poorly-explained welter of controls. But the story is fascinating to see in its mechanics, because they're definitely trying to break the mold - and it shows, and it's compelling. And for that, I have to give them the long, slow clap.

11/16/09 10:34 pm - [info]dark_deity posting in [info]vaginapagina - First timer

Hello. My friend recommended this community to me.

This is a looooong story so I'll try to remember all the facts.


I had sex for the first time in August. It all started to what I thought was herpes (but was actually just a pimple) and having some brighter than normal discharge. The first doctor, without any testing, said I had bacterial vaginosis and did douching and an insert pill. Of course douching is BAD and he was a douche-y doctor so I found another one.

I took an extensive STD test and everything was negative. After my period, everything seemed to go back to normal.

October 1st, I was struck with a sudden UTI (first one EVER) and got a three day dose of antibiotics. I went back after a week so they could test and they said I was fine, although I was still feeling weird down there.

Two weeks later, I had sex with my boyfriend and my clitoris burned so badly about 5 minutes before we finished. I went to the doctor the next day (the stupid one) and again without testing, he said the UTI and the bacterial vaginosis much be treated together. Again with the douching... I left to go to the other doctor (the male gyno was the only one open on Saturday so I went because I was worried). The other doctor did a vaginal and urine test. She found 3 kinds of bacteria (Streptococcus Agalactiae, Escherichia Coli, Enterococcus Faecalis) and fungus (Candida Albicans). I received a round of antibiotics, inserts, and a cream.

I had slight itching, but not terrible. My discharge was a bright yellow. My boyfriend and I stopped having sex for two weeks (recommended by the doctor) and I also tried acidophilus + doing the yogurt remedy.

One thing, when I started the inserts, my lower abdomen started to hurt. Not all the time, but every now and then. It feels like menstrual cramps but I'm not do for another week (on the pill). I started to worry maybe it was PID. But I also developed horrible gas when I tried the garlic method (two cloves chopped up and swallowed.... not doing that again). I also had the cramping last time and it was about a week before my period (on a different set of pills). The douche doctor said it was from the "inflammation". But the cramping went away as soon as my period came.

The cramping I'm worried about. Of course there are several possibilities to the cramping (gas, the pill, the inserts, PID, the infection...). The other symptoms seemed to have all but disappeared but the cramping every now and then. It's not terrible pain but just that uncomfortable sudden menstrual cramp feeling and it's gone.

I can't go to the doctor until next week... (work. I live and work in JAPAN so, take the morning off for the doctor??? WHAT?! -_-).

11/16/09 08:30 am - [info]with_gusto

11/16/09 01:05 pm - [info]riksowden - Movember update

Well, here we are at week two and (with plenty of opportunity for sponsorship still!) the "mo" is shaping up - it's fairly sparce still, but filling out, so I should be fine for the Prince Albert role come December.

Beyond here be some photographic evidence! )
There is still plenty of chance to sponsor it (and tis for a good cause) if you so wish! If you'd like to donate then just use this link: http://uk.movember.com/mospace/134365/
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11/16/09 09:49 am - [info]davywavy - Friedrich Nietzsche was a pillock

Nietzsche's most famous observation was 'that which does not kill me makes me stronger', which plainly isn't true. I can think of loads of non-fatal things which won't do that.

Ten things which probably won't kill you but are highly unlikely to make you stronger:

1) Halitosis
2) Accidentally sitting on a cactus
3) Deliberately sittting on a cactus
4) Happy Meals as part of a calorie-controlled diet
5) Forgetting to wash your hands between putting Deep Heat on and going to the toilet.
6) Voting Labour
7) Haemarrhoids
8) Gout
9) Livejournal
10) Eating three large bowls of All-Bran in one sitting

11/16/09 08:50 am - [info]minnesattva - Chocolate cake is a good one, actually



“I love seeing with lines are resonating with people,” says a comment from one of the shirt’s creators.

i know mine.

Christmas.

I imagine there’s a normal progression from the giddy excitement of Christmas when you can count your age on your fingers* to the point where you feel grown up because you helped make the pies and were trusted with drying the good china after your mom washed it, to the point where you’re expected to buy presents for people you don’t like because you know they’re buying you things you don’t like.

But the normal progression gets kind of stalled when your brother dies just before you turn 24 and you move away just after. Now Christmas is fraught with landmines just under the surface of everything said and done, the joy of nostalgic itches that are scratched by everything being just the same as it always is; I can recite the food on the dinner table, the particular cheap wine, the candy and the plates it’ll be on, the sorts of clothes we’ll wear and the conversations we’ll have.

And yet however loud my aunt and cousins are, they are all but drowned out of the heavy silence of my brother not being there. On this day where everybody should be where they belong, you can’t fool yourself that he’s just somewhere else, at work or with his friends, as I do most of the rest of the year -- a fraud so easy my subconscious pulls it off without me noticing, most of the time.

But not at Christmas.

Like everyone else, the best I can do is enjoy what I have, when I can, but...

My other favorite comment there is the guy who says I keep adding to it in my head: “chocolate cake” “growing up” “Veteran’s Day with a WW2 vet at home eager to tell his hair-raising tales while a brother is in Afghanistan”.

I’d add...

Airports.

Old hymns.

Being the first one to roll over and go to sleep.

Laundromats.

Babies.

It is complicated.



* I don’t know if I have ever been as happy as I was the year there was a box under the tree that seemed as big as I was, and it had my name on it. No afternoon nap was taken that year! I tried my best but I couldn’t lay still for anything. When you’re that age size does matter, and I believed that I must have been very good indeed that year.

The contents of the box ended up being pretty great -- a dollhouse my grandpa had made for me, with little people and little furniture they’d bought and little rugs my grandma had crocheted -- but nowhere near as great as the anticipation, the impossibility of imagining what could be in that box.

Anyway, though I remember marvelling at the tiny faucets on the tiny sink, and envying the tiny people their patio furniture, but I was never really a doll person.

11/16/09 12:04 am - [info]erleichda - Tweets of the Day

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11/16/09 12:57 am - [info]one_in92and95 posting in [info]vaginapagina - Discomfort with Monistat 7

Good evening, VPers!

I have a question for any readers who have used Monistat 7 for a yeast infection. I have the pack with the long plastic applicators that you fill with cream then inject like a tampon-like syringe. I just used it and could not get it far inside of me AT ALL. The edge of the applicator hurt very badly, in fact. It felt like it was scraping the walls of my vagina, so I just relaxed as much as I could, made sure my NuvaRing was as far as I could get it, and still just got the applicator in only a little bit. Most of the cream even ended up just pushing out right away :(

Do any of you have any tips or similar stories?

Thanks so much =)

11/16/09 12:37 am - [info]pewpz posting in [info]vaginapagina - Prescription question.

I have a prescription for Loette, & i've been taking it for about 5 months now. I got my prescription while I was living in Italy, given to me by a doctor that worked in the embassy there. I'm now back in the states & am wondering what to do about it. Will I have to do more tests & get a new prescription, or is it likely that they can just transfer it to the American equivalent of Loestrin?

Thank you to anyone that can help.
=]

ETA: i am going to ask a doctor as well, but i just wanted to hear other experiences =]

11/15/09 11:20 pm - [info]ievil_spock_47i posting in [info]loltheorists - Free space.




click to make big

11/15/09 09:54 pm - [info]buggrit_1979 posting in [info]loltheorists



It is arguable whether Dawkins is a theorist; however, by the somewhat loose definitions of this community, I believe this fits.

11/15/09 08:38 pm - [info]frolicnaked posting in [info]vaginapagina - Random Questions: Diaphragms & Cloth Pads

First off, being the genius that I am, I threw away the information that came with my diaphragm after glancing through it only briefly. So today, after I'd already forgotten about it hanging out in my vagina, I also realized I did not know how to clean it.

Since it's silicone, I'm guessing I can clean it the same way I would my menstrual cup: soap, water, and letting it air dry. Yes? The reputable sites I'm Googling suggest this is the case, but I just wanted to double check here.

Also, does anyone know about the suitability of cotton corduroy for the top fabric in cloth menstrual pads? Apparently, with my post-Mirena flow, I still do not have enough pads unless I want to do laundry twice a day during my period. And appropriately themed cloth pads are key to keeping me amused by rather than frightened of the amount of fluid I lose during them. (Read: I currently have a hate-hate-fear-hate relationship with my period. Getting to bleed on cool-looking pads does a little to mitigate that fear and hate; therefore, this is kind of a big deal to me.)

Because I'm incredibly picky, I've had problems finding a cotton print or flannel that I like well enough. I found some cotton corduroys that I did like, but I wasn't sure if they'd work sufficiently well. They're 100% cotton, so I think they'd still be fairly breathable and absorbent; the ones I saw also felt as soft as cotton flannel, so I think they'd still be comfortable.

Has anyone ever actually used cotton corduroy for cloth pads, or would I be embarking on another Fun Vagina Experiment if I tried this?

11/15/09 03:25 pm - [info]x_crazyness_xxx posting in [info]vaginapagina - UTI's

I have a question a friend wanted me to ask here.

She has been having UTI's for the past 3 years (since she's been sexually active) She gets them everytime she has sex. She pees before and after sex but still manages to get one. She gets them whether or not they use condoms.Her gyno gave her medication which helps but she goes through a lot of pain still.

I had heard about this pill that your doctor can prescribe to you when they know you get UTIs a lot, and you take it before having sex in order to prevent getting one. Does this really exist? What else can she do in order to prevent one?
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